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Why Humility Is the Biggest Enemy of a Designer’s Career

Written by Deyan Evlogiev | Jan 31, 2026 1:40:27 PM

Why this problem is more serious than it looks

Many talented architects and designers don’t struggle because of a lack of skills.
They struggle because of something quieter and more damaging: invisibility.

Not because they are bad at what they do, but because they don’t clearly communicate what exactly makes them valuable.

As Miglena Stumbova, interior designer and founder of Studio Shkafa, openly shares:

“I struggled with low confidence for many years. I wanted to work as an interior designer and develop my talent, but I wasn’t convinced why clients should trust me.”

This is not a story about missing experience or weak portfolios.
It’s a story about humility turning into a career limitation.

This article is based on insights shared by interior designer Miglena Stumbova in a video discussion about confidence, visibility, and professional self-presentation in design.

👉 Watch the full video discussion with Miglena Stumbova

This topic is part of a broader framework on career clarity and visibility in architecture and AEC.

👉 Explore the Architect’s Career Blueprint

Where humility starts to hurt your career

Miglena puts the problem bluntly:

“Being humble can be a big limitation. Unless I state what is true about me, people won’t be able to notice it from a distance.”

This has very real consequences:

  1. Clients don’t choose you, because they don’t understand your value
  2. Your price feels unjustified, if you yourself are not convinced your work is worth more
  3. You become replaceable, because nothing clearly differentiates you from others

In this context, humility is not a virtue.
It is a lack of clarity.

The confidence–trust connection

One of Miglena’s most practical insights is simple:

“The first thing a client sees is your confidence. That’s what helps them trust you.”

Clients and employers cannot “sense” your talent.
They rely on signals:

  • how you talk about your work
  • how you describe your strengths
  • how clearly you explain the value you bring

Hesitation in these areas is interpreted as uncertainty, regardless of your actual skills.

Self-presentation is not only for entrepreneurs

Many designers believe that only freelancers or studio owners need to “sell themselves.”

Miglena strongly disagrees.

Whether you are:

  • a freelancer
  • a full-time employee
  • an assistant or junior designer

If you want a job, a project, or a collaboration, you must be able to present yourself in the best possible light.

Self-presentation is not optional. It is a professional skill.

How clients and employers really think

One of the most useful frameworks Miglena uses is straightforward:

“Put yourself in the client’s shoes.”

Clients don’t ask:

  • “Is this person humble?”
  • “Do they doubt themselves?”

They ask:

  • What difference will this person make to my project?
  • What can they do better than others?
  • Can I trust them?

Describing your strengths is not bragging.
It is information people need to make a decision.

Your strengths go beyond software skills

Miglena identifies several of her own core strengths, none of which are vague:

  • Communication – adapting her style to both clients and contractors
  • Creativity – seeing spatial solutions others don’t consider
  • Organization – coordinating teams, processes, and deadlines
  • Leadership – “a person who goes alone goes nowhere”

Each of these strengths directly improves project outcomes.
They are not abstract traits. They are business-critical capabilities.

Don’t underestimate “unexpected” experience

Many designers hide parts of their background:

  • work outside design
  • difficult periods
  • non-linear career paths

Miglena argues the opposite:

“Hard circumstances train problem-solving skills that ordinary situations never develop.”

That experience is not a weakness.
It is a competitive advantage, if you know how to articulate it.

How to describe your strengths in practice

Two practical principles stand out:

1. Think of skills as keywords

Not “good designer,” but:

  • SketchUp
  • V-Ray
  • AutoCAD
  • Project coordination
  • Client communication

2. Describe how you work, not who you are

Instead of generic statements, explain:

  • how you solve problems
  • how you communicate
  • how you manage complexity

As Miglena says:

“I can say it without bragging. I’m just stating what’s true.”

Why clarity is responsibility, not ego

The final perspective is crucial.

Clearly presenting your value is not about ego.
It is about responsibility toward:

  • clients who need your expertise
  • employers searching for the right fit
  • your own professional growth

Leaving your profile incomplete doesn’t make you modest.
It makes you harder to find.

What you can do today

  • Write down three concrete professional skills
  • Identify two qualities that make projects run smoother
  • Choose one experience from your past that gives you an edge

Then ask yourself:

What would matter most to someone considering working with me?

Clarity is not self-promotion.
It is professionalism.

For deeper context and real examples, you can watch the full video featuring Miglena Stumbova.

👉 Watch the full video discussion with Miglena Stumbova